things that make you goo HMMMMMMMM

Ok so I am watching the VIEW today and elisabeth makes this statement " you cant be a good parent if you are cheating on your spouse?"

That is a blanket statement and To me shows she has not really lived a full life yet.

So let's get to the statmenet she made on National TV......

Can you be a good parent if you are cheating on your spouse?

I do not think one has to do with the other, I am not married however I was and we did not divorce due to any of the above.

How you love your children and how you love your spouse are two different things.

Many of marriages have survived due to affairs and the children feel very loved and some do not however once a child gets to an age they can make their own mind up on whether or not they want to like or dislike their parent's right?

I am sure we never think to ourselves hmmm I am goona get married and cheat on my spouse....

So what are your thoughts on this?

Parenting

We all have our own ways of taking care of our children however you would think that there are just some things that are universal..lol

such as: 1)you do not let your 5 year old play in the street
2) you do have to feed them sooner or later
3) leading by a good example

I am just flabbergasted at the things I see everyday. Parents who just let the children ru nthe house, when the children do something wrong the parents laugh(like stealing and shoplifting)But then the parents want you to understand it is not their fault the child is just bad..(bull)

Then you see the parents doing the same thing that their children were doing and they say nothing is wrong with it... PLEASE they need HELP./

I am trying to distance myself from alot of this people and I am doing a goodjob so far and my children are also doing a good job.

Please people if you have children they are going to do the same thing that they see you doing so leand and show them the legal way of doing things..